Important PSA
4 years ago
Hey all, important thing here so forgive me if it becomes a bit of a long read.
Lately I've been having a bit of an issue with boundaries and socially acceptable behavior. I'm super happy so many of you like my art and a lot of what I draw/do, but there's a problem as of late. The problem I'm facing right now is a sudden influx of behavior that is just not acceptable in any way. I've been receiving threats of violence, self harm, and some very stalker-ish behavior from people who do not want to take no for an answer.
It is never okay to force yourself on someone. Just like its never okay to try and force someone to change their mind. If someone tells you no its for a reason and its not your job to find out why. Not everything has to have a reason and nobody owes you an explanation. If you see or know someone trying to force themselves on someone else or threaten to harm themselves or others if they don't get what they want then you have the power to help put a stop to that kind of behavior.
I know you are all lovely people and so many of you are so very supportive. That's why I needed to make this post to let you know I care about you all and to be the best you that you can be.
I hate having to get serious like that but I've let it go for a long time now and the most recent self-harm threat I'd received made me realize something needed to be said.
Thank you all for taking the time to go through this. You're all wonderful. ❤️
Lately I've been having a bit of an issue with boundaries and socially acceptable behavior. I'm super happy so many of you like my art and a lot of what I draw/do, but there's a problem as of late. The problem I'm facing right now is a sudden influx of behavior that is just not acceptable in any way. I've been receiving threats of violence, self harm, and some very stalker-ish behavior from people who do not want to take no for an answer.
It is never okay to force yourself on someone. Just like its never okay to try and force someone to change their mind. If someone tells you no its for a reason and its not your job to find out why. Not everything has to have a reason and nobody owes you an explanation. If you see or know someone trying to force themselves on someone else or threaten to harm themselves or others if they don't get what they want then you have the power to help put a stop to that kind of behavior.
I know you are all lovely people and so many of you are so very supportive. That's why I needed to make this post to let you know I care about you all and to be the best you that you can be.
I hate having to get serious like that but I've let it go for a long time now and the most recent self-harm threat I'd received made me realize something needed to be said.
Thank you all for taking the time to go through this. You're all wonderful. ❤️
You're a good and I'm sorry you gotta deal with all this.
What the actual fuck
This whole thing definitely caught me off guard for a good while.